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November 4, 2020 julielelder

Maya Says Forgive

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God’s Perfect Plan For Me & Other Fears

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Self-Care for Survivors (& other mysteries)

December 17, 2018December 18, 2018 julielelder

The Informative Meltdown aka My Life As A Trauma Mama

December 10, 2018 julielelder

Full Disclosure: I’m a Christian and I haven’t forgiven everyone who’s hurt me.

September 13, 2018 julielelder

Failing

July 24, 2018 julielelder

In pursuit of mental health

August 23, 2017August 23, 2017 julielelder

Growing Up.

June 29, 2017 julielelder

Trains, pains (but no automobiles)

March 26, 2017October 4, 2017 julielelder

The F Word: Frailty

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change is bad I'll always be the same I'll always feel this way I'm ALL bad if I fail once I'm at the mercy of others I'm defective because I'm different I'm Less-Than I'm stupid I'm too broken I'm too broken to be loved I'm too needy I'm unlovable I'm weak if I can't fix it I'm who others say I am I'm worthless when I'm weak I am Invisible I can't help myself anyway I can make others happy I don't deserve my own kindness I don't deserve respect and love I have to be perfect i should be psychic I should have known i should just be quiet i should only look happy it's selfish to love myself my voice doesn't matter my weight is my worth others' words mean more others should always come first

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change is bad I'll always be the same I'll always feel this way I'm ALL bad if I fail once I'm at the mercy of others I'm defective because I'm different I'm Less-Than I'm stupid I'm too broken I'm too broken to be loved I'm too needy I'm unlovable I'm weak if I can't fix it I'm who others say I am I'm worthless when I'm weak I am Invisible I can't help myself anyway I can make others happy I don't deserve my own kindness I don't deserve respect and love I have to be perfect i should be psychic I should have known i should just be quiet i should only look happy it's selfish to love myself my voice doesn't matter my weight is my worth others' words mean more others should always come first
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