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March 31, 2021June 8, 2021 julielelder

The Art of the Pivot

February 24, 2021 julielelder

Trauma: zero, Me: A gazillion.

February 11, 2021 julielelder

The Biggest Scaredy-cat In the Universe Buys a House

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December 16, 2020 julielelder

Come Anxiety or High Water

November 19, 2020 julielelder

Poeming: Our Ability to Love

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November 4, 2020 julielelder

Maya Says Forgive

October 21, 2020 julielelder

Beside Myself: The art of dissociation Part 2

October 14, 2020 julielelder

Beside Myself: the art of dissociation

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October 8, 2020 julielelder

Ch-ch-changes Part 2

September 30, 2020 julielelder

Ch-ch-changes

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change is bad I'll always be the same I'll always feel this way I'm ALL bad if I fail once I'm at the mercy of others I'm defective because I'm different I'm Less-Than I'm stupid I'm too broken I'm too broken to be loved I'm too needy I'm unlovable I'm weak if I can't fix it I'm who others say I am I'm worthless when I'm weak I am Invisible I can't help myself anyway I can make others happy I don't deserve my own kindness I don't deserve respect and love I have to be perfect i should be psychic I should have known i should just be quiet i should only look happy it's selfish to love myself my voice doesn't matter my weight is my worth others' words mean more others should always come first

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