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September 30, 2020September 30, 2020 julielelder

Ch-ch-changes

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September 23, 2020September 23, 2020 julielelder

Confessions of a Good Christian Girl

August 27, 2020August 27, 2020 julielelder

Beautiful Bones

April 3, 2019April 2, 2019 julielelder

To My Petulant Inner 4-year-old

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March 24, 2019March 24, 2019 julielelder

God’s Perfect Plan For Me & Other Fears

January 8, 2019January 8, 2019 julielelder

Self-Care for Survivors (& other mysteries)

December 17, 2018December 18, 2018 julielelder

The Informative Meltdown aka My Life As A Trauma Mama

December 10, 2018 julielelder

Full Disclosure: I’m a Christian and I haven’t forgiven everyone who’s hurt me.

July 24, 2018 julielelder

In pursuit of mental health

September 29, 2017September 30, 2017 julielelder

The Good Girl Lie

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change is bad I'll always be the same I'll always feel this way I'm ALL bad if I fail once I'm at the mercy of others I'm defective because I'm different I'm Less-Than I'm stupid I'm too broken I'm too broken to be loved I'm too needy I'm unlovable I'm weak if I can't fix it I'm who others say I am I'm worthless when I'm weak I am Invisible I can't help myself anyway I can make others happy I don't deserve my own kindness I don't deserve respect and love I have to be perfect i should be psychic I should have known i should just be quiet i should only look happy it's selfish to love myself my voice doesn't matter my weight is my worth others' words mean more others should always come first

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change is bad I'll always be the same I'll always feel this way I'm ALL bad if I fail once I'm at the mercy of others I'm defective because I'm different I'm Less-Than I'm stupid I'm too broken I'm too broken to be loved I'm too needy I'm unlovable I'm weak if I can't fix it I'm who others say I am I'm worthless when I'm weak I am Invisible I can't help myself anyway I can make others happy I don't deserve my own kindness I don't deserve respect and love I have to be perfect i should be psychic I should have known i should just be quiet i should only look happy it's selfish to love myself my voice doesn't matter my weight is my worth others' words mean more others should always come first
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