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August 27, 2020August 27, 2020 julielelder

Beautiful Bones

July 23, 2019July 23, 2019 julielelder

A Letter to My Therapist

Writing quote by Anne Lamott
June 15, 2019 julielelder

Dismantling

January 30, 2019January 30, 2019 julielelder

Shoveling Shite: Lessons Learned From the Litter Box

January 14, 2019January 14, 2019 julielelder

Divorce Sucks (& other news)

December 10, 2018 julielelder

Full Disclosure: I’m a Christian and I haven’t forgiven everyone who’s hurt me.

November 22, 2018November 22, 2018 julielelder

New Definitions

September 13, 2018 julielelder

Failing

April 26, 2018April 26, 2018 julielelder

Daring to have a need, and wilder yet, meeting it!

December 3, 2017 julielelder

Learning to let go.

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change is bad everyone is looking at me I'll always be the same I'll always feel this way I'm ALL bad if I fail once I'm at the mercy of others I'm defective because I'm different I'm Less-Than I'm stupid I'm too broken I'm too broken to be loved I'm too needy I'm unlovable I'm weak if I can't fix it I'm worthless when I'm weak I am Invisible I can't help myself anyway I can make others happy I don't deserve my own kindness I don't deserve respect and love I have to be perfect i should be psychic I should have known i should just be quiet i should only look happy it's selfish to love myself my voice doesn't matter my weight is my worth others' words mean more others should always come first

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change is bad everyone is looking at me I'll always be the same I'll always feel this way I'm ALL bad if I fail once I'm at the mercy of others I'm defective because I'm different I'm Less-Than I'm stupid I'm too broken I'm too broken to be loved I'm too needy I'm unlovable I'm weak if I can't fix it I'm worthless when I'm weak I am Invisible I can't help myself anyway I can make others happy I don't deserve my own kindness I don't deserve respect and love I have to be perfect i should be psychic I should have known i should just be quiet i should only look happy it's selfish to love myself my voice doesn't matter my weight is my worth others' words mean more others should always come first
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