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September 16, 2020 julielelder

Storms Never Last–or do they, baby?

September 9, 2020 julielelder

Dear Sisty-Ugler,

September 2, 2020 julielelder

I’m Not Defective. (my therapist told me so)

August 27, 2020 julielelder

Beautiful Bones

November 22, 2019 julielelder

The Grief of Grieving

November 7, 2019 julielelder

Poeming: Choose Your Own (ad)Venture

July 23, 2019 julielelder

A Letter to My Therapist

Writing quote by Anne Lamott
June 15, 2019 julielelder

Dismantling

June 3, 2019 julielelder

The Travel In My Bones: The Walks and Wellies Edition

May 24, 2019 julielelder

The Travel in My Bones: English Country Edition

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