the lies in our bones

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Author: julielelder

I've always loved hearing other people's life stories. We share a sameness yet each one of us is unique. Now at sixty-plus and on a road called Transition, I'm learning to love, accept, and appreciate myself and my own story--and excited to see what comes next.
November 7, 2019 julielelder

Poeming: Choose Your Own (ad)Venture

July 23, 2019July 23, 2019 julielelder

A Letter to My Therapist

Writing quote by Anne Lamott
June 15, 2019 julielelder

Dismantling

June 3, 2019June 12, 2019 julielelder

The Travel In My Bones: The Walks and Wellies Edition

May 24, 2019 julielelder

The Travel in My Bones: English Country Edition

May 16, 2019 julielelder

5 Easy Steps to People Pleasing

April 3, 2019April 2, 2019 julielelder

To My Petulant Inner 4-year-old

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March 24, 2019March 24, 2019 julielelder

God’s Perfect Plan For Me & Other Fears

March 8, 2019March 8, 2019 julielelder

Why I’m a Bad Christian

February 27, 2019February 27, 2019 julielelder

Aaron Gets Out of the Wobbly Chair

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change is bad I'll always be the same I'll always feel this way I'm ALL bad if I fail once I'm at the mercy of others I'm defective because I'm different I'm Less-Than I'm stupid I'm too broken I'm too broken to be loved I'm too needy I'm unlovable I'm weak if I can't fix it I'm who others say I am I'm worthless when I'm weak I am Invisible I can't help myself anyway I can make others happy I don't deserve my own kindness I don't deserve respect and love I have to be perfect i should be psychic I should have known i should just be quiet i should only look happy it's selfish to love myself my voice doesn't matter my weight is my worth others' words mean more others should always come first

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  • Beside Myself: The art of dissociation Part 2
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change is bad I'll always be the same I'll always feel this way I'm ALL bad if I fail once I'm at the mercy of others I'm defective because I'm different I'm Less-Than I'm stupid I'm too broken I'm too broken to be loved I'm too needy I'm unlovable I'm weak if I can't fix it I'm who others say I am I'm worthless when I'm weak I am Invisible I can't help myself anyway I can make others happy I don't deserve my own kindness I don't deserve respect and love I have to be perfect i should be psychic I should have known i should just be quiet i should only look happy it's selfish to love myself my voice doesn't matter my weight is my worth others' words mean more others should always come first
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